About Karlijn

My name is Karlijn Smits. I am a certified Jay Shetty Coach.

I personally have experience as a KOPP child (KOPP is an abbreviation for Children of Parents with Mental and/or Addiction Problems). Growing up with this, I developed similar issues. This led me to delve into Borderline Personality Disorder and worked for many years as the national coordinator of the Borderline Foundation.

Especially being able to "interpret" the inner world of someone with this or similar issues and the ability to see it from the perspective of their loved ones and support them has proven invaluable. I have gained a lot of experience in this over the years and consider it the most rewarding work there is!

My own issues are now far behind me, and I have been in calm, stable, and happy waters for a long time.

My knowledge and experience with Narcissistic Personality Disorder stems from personal experience and the years of work to understand and learn to cope with it. My natural interest led me to delve deeper and develop my skills. Here too, knowledge and skills as a family member are invaluable.

I find the combination of personal recognition of the issues and that of family members essential, alongside theoretical knowledge and skills. Being able to truly see someone and empathize with their impact definitely increases the impact of the coaching. This is especially true if you're a family member of someone with a lack of empathy, mentalizing skills, or emotional availability.

This work is my passion, and I find it incredibly rewarding. My working style is open and empathetic, working in genuine contact without vague language.

If this resonates with you, I sincerely hope to contribute to your process!